Sleeping next to your partner every night is lovely, right? The endless cuddles and someone to warm your cold feet on …. the feeling is truly inimitable. But sharing the bed with someone also comes with its downsides. Perhaps your partner loves to hog the bed, or maybe they wriggle around so much during the night you’re truly concerned they might pull a muscle. On top of that, if you have an uncomfortable mattress or one that’s not best suited for two people, well, you’re in for some sleepless nights (or years).

The reality is, poor sleep quality can actually breed resentment in a relationship (ever thought about your own room or separate beds?) While this option might work for some, if you want to sleep in the same bed as your partner but you’re desperate for a good night’s sleep, one of the first things you should be looking at is your mattress. While we can’t help you or your partner if they’re an epic snorer, we can help you find a mattress that will provide the most comfortable and restful sleep when there’s two in the bed. Read on to find out more!

Room for Two?

To start with, you should consider the size you and your partner need. While sharing a single bed while you were in university might have been fun, if you’re now living with your partner and sleeping together every night, you’re gonna need a bigger boat (err, bed). We’d say most couples would choose a queen size bed – it’s roomy enough for two but you’re not drowning in unused bed space. However, if both you and your partner like a lot of space in the bed, or perhaps you’re both on the heavier side, a king might be what you need, but of course it will depend on how much room you have in your bedroom. If you and your partner are both on the smaller side, a double might suit you just fine as well.

Partner Disturbance Be Gone

If you have a partner who acts like they’re in the biggest fight of their life while they’re sleeping, you’ll understand the frustration of being able to feel every single movement they make while you’re trying to sleep. Or, perhaps your partner is on a different sleep and work schedule to you and you’re tired of feeling them crawl into bed hours after you. That’s why choosing a mattress that is made from materials that reduce motion transfer can make a big difference to young couples and the quality of your sleep. While some spring mattresses will tend to react to movement and transfer motion across the bed, foam mattresses are the best at absorbing movement. It does this by adjusting to the shape of your body and prevents any sagging or rolling.

If you don’t enjoy the feeling of a foam mattress, we’d suggest a pocket spring or hybrid mattress which is designed to decrease partner disturbance with gel or memory foam mixed with an innerpsring system (not to mention hybrid mattresses are often better beds for sex because they are more responsive and have a good degree of bounce to them!)

Firm or Soft?

Perhaps the hardest part (pun intended) of finding a mattress as a young couple is finding one that suits both of your firmness requirements. Oftentimes, finding a mattress that suits two people can take time and a bit of compromise. Things like height, sleeping style, and weight all play a factor in the right type of firmness you need. There are some mattresses out there where you can have half the mattress one type of firmness and the other half something different, but this might not work for everyone, especially if you’re on a budget as these tend to be a little pricier. If this is the case, it’s often best to opt for a medium-firm memory foam mattress or a mattress with a pocket coil system that will adjust to individual sleeping positions and lead to a more restful and comfortable night’s sleep.

Think About Support

This is an extension of the above consideration but you also need to consider the support levels of the mattress. The mattress you choose needs to be able to support multiple different types of sleeping positions as well as two different weights. You want a mattress that after prolonged use doesn’t slope down on one side or leave a permanent indentation. This is especially true when one partner is heavier, causing the wrong type of mattress to slope down where the heavier partner sleeps. As such, young couples need to select a mattress that has enough support for both people. This will typically be a mattress with pocketed coils or one with a firm memory foam layer.

The Best Mattress for Young Couples Ranked

Best Overall – Ecosa

Mattress typeWho’s it best for? HighlightsPrice (Queen)
Memory foam You want a memory foam mattress You want tailor-made firmnessAll types of sleepers (side, back and stomach)Can customise mattress firmness to suit your needsComes in a variety of extra sizesVery durable – can last up to 15 years$1,099

As one of the most well-known mattress in a box products in Australia, the memory foam Ecosa mattress offers pretty good value for money. Its drawing card is its unique feature that allows you to adjust the firmness to suit your needs, with three tiers available. Whatever firmness you prefer, the Ecosa mattress can cater to it, which is a real bonus – especially for young couples who don’t know what type of mattress firmness they prefer.

The customisation feature makes the Ecosa mattress work for most sleepers, but typically back and side sleepers will enjoy it the most as the foam supports the natural curve of the body, with a comfort layer offering cushioning for pressure points. Many customers suggest they wake up with less back pain and neck stiffness.

Best Value – Emma Original

Mattress typeWho’s it best for? HighlightsPrice (Queen)
FoamIf you’re looking for a budget mattressAll types of sleepers, including side, back and stomach7 zones of supportExcellent value for moneyHighly awarded mattress$1,099

Founded in Germany in 2015, the Emma mattress has made waves across the globe – 21 countries to be exact – and is an award-winning triple-layered foam mattress. It offers exceptional value for money – especially for those on a budget. It’s incredibly comfortable while also providing fantastic support for all sleeping positions. The Emma is a great choice for sleepers who want superior quality in foam design that’s made to relieve pressure and minimise partner disturbance. The Emma Original mattress has been tried and tested in Europe with multiple awards won (in fact, it’s the most awarded mattress in Europe).

The Emma Original is a great budget choice for young couples. Despite being bouncier and more resilient than traditional memory foam mattresses, the Emma Original offers low motion transfer. It absorbs shock from motion quite well and provides minimal motion transfer.

Best Luxury – Sleeping Duck

Mattress typeWho’s it best for? HighlightsPrice (Queen)
HybridYou want a highly customisable mattress You need minimal partner disturbance All types of sleepers, including side, back and stomachA customisable, modular foam layer Choose a different level of firmness to your partner AntiGravity Surface Foam layer offers excellent pressure relief$1,649

Look at any online reviews of the Sleeping Duck mattress and you’ll quickly come to realise it’s one of the most popular mattress in a box products in Australia. Featuring a customisable, modular foam layer that can be adjusted in 12 separate areas (6 on each side of the bed), the Sleeping Duck mattress goes above and beyond in its customisation capabilities – from whether you want a medium or firm overall, with a soft, medium or extra-firm micro-setting.

What’s even better is that you can have a different level of firmness to your sleeping partner, which is a truly unique feature of the Sleeping Duck. Ideal for front, side, back or combo sleepers, there’s not much not to love about the Sleeping Duck. does have a weight limit of 280kg, however, so heavier couples might opt for a mattress that has a better capacity to hold heavier loads. 

Best for Heavy Sleepers – New Koala 

Mattress typeWho’s it best for? HighlightsPrice (Queen)
FoamHeavier couples up to 600kg Couples who enjoy a firmer mattressCouples on a budget Non-toxic and eco-friendlyCustomisableBudget friendly$1,050

As the name suggests, the New Koala Mattress is an upgrade to the highly popular original Koala mattress which came out in 2015. It is one of Australia’s most popular foam mattresses in a box that’s eco-friendly and non-toxic. Similar to Ecosa and Sleeping Duck, a great feature of the New Koala is the ability to change the firmness pressure to suit your individual needs. The New Koala mattress is the basic model in Koala’s new mattress range, which also includes the Calm As mattress and the Soul Mate mattress.

Koala mattresses feature a Zero Disturbance promise, and customers report noticing a reduction in partner disturbance throughout the night. Meanwhile, it takes up to a combined weight of 600kg, making it the ideal mattress for heavier young couples. 

Best for Pressure Relief – Ergoflex 5G

Mattress typeWho’s it best for? HighlightsPrice (Queen)
Memory foamCouples who need back pain reliefCouples who like a firm mattressYou want a tried & tested mattress High-quality mattress at cheaper priceExcellent pressure-relief9cm thick memory foam layer$1,529

While Ergoflex might not be the most well-known or popular mattress-in-a-box product, it certainly should be. It’s one of the highest-quality memory foam mattresses on the market, and arguably the most comfortable. A typical memory foam mattress is designed to adapt to your unique body comforts, offering a well-supported spine and better posture. Not many memory foam mattresses truly offer all these features – except the Ergoflex 5G that is made from high-density foam.

In terms of best mattresses for young couples who need good pressure relief, there’s no question the Ergoflex 5G comes in at number one. The mattress offers exceptional levels of pressure relief and support, which most sleepers would appreciate. It’s especially rated for its ability to reduce pain. Plenty of customer reviews describe sleeping on the mattress as “sleeping on a cloud”. Meanwhile, the Ergoflex 5G excels in motion isolation, making it an excellent choice for couples. The only couples it wouldn’t suit are those with a combined weight of over 190kg. 

In Conclusion

So there you have it – your ultimate buying guide to the best mattress for young couples. Hopefully, this has helped give you some food for thought on finding the right mattress for you and your beloved (and will prevent any future sleep-related arguments).